Obsession
Are favours optional or either/or? For example, do I get both favours on the Fenced Paddock?
The rulebook states that every favour is mandatory except dismissal, and the designer confirmed no tile has an OR favour.
All favours on a tile or card are taken; none is an either/or choice. The only optional favour is the dismissal (and the Lady of the House chooses between her draw-two-keep-one and dismissal).